by John E. Bonfadini, Ed.D.,
Contributing Columnist
Professor Emeritus, George Mason University
John E. Bonfadini
A car pulls up next to you at a stoplight and your
car begins to vibrate. The car is equipped with a 100-watt amplifier and
high-powered Bose acoustic speakers. The teen in the car is submersed in
bone-grinding music at glass-shattering volume. The annoyance lasts only a
moment before the driver moves on toward another unsuspecting
decibel-shock victim.
I, too, have my CD volume turned up a bit higher than
most drivers. But, my reason for listening to music at an increased volume
isn�t to impress other people. It�s much simpler: I�ve lost a
significant amount of my hearing. Young people think they are infallible.
They don�t understand that unlike their sound system, replacement parts
for hearing loss are not available at the audio store. Yes, I know you can
buy hearing aids, but these man-made devices don�t come close to
producing the hearing quality of the original God-given equipment. One of
my favorite Willie Nelson songs has a line that says, �Nothing lasts
forever except forever and you, my love.� We can add hearing loss to
that line: Lose your hearing, and it�s gone forever.
As a youngster, I had hearing problems. I recall my
parents taking me to a hospital in Monessen, Pa., for a ringing in my
ears. My dad also had hearing difficulties, but never purchased a hearing
aid. I�ve reflected on the possible reasons for my hearing loss. Some
are probably hereditary, but the greater portion resulted from
insufficient knowledge or basic stupidity. Hereditary hearing losses are
difficult for the individual to affect, but environmental factors are
controllable. Prevention of hearing loss is simple � wear ear protection
when loud noise is present. During my years of teaching shop I insisted
that students wear eye protection, but was more lax with noise protection.
States have passed school laws requiring eye protection in lab situations,
but no such laws exist for hearing protection. I can remember complaining
about the installation of a large, noisy air-handling unit in a lab. I got
little sympathy from the architect or school administrators, whose primary
concerns centered more on cost containment.
Hunters Take Notice
Hearing loss usually occurs in small steps, except in
the case of illness. I remember my first major hearing loss, after I
sighted a .30-06 rifle without ear protection. It was the day before the
opening of deer season. I had gone to Clark Brothers in Warrenton to sight
my rifle. When I got there I noticed a broken mount on the scope, which I
fixed. I then went outside without bore-sighting the rifle, and without
ear protection, and began shooting. I kept firing under the covered range
until I finally had an acceptable pattern. On the way home my ears and
head hurt. It took quite a while for the pain to go away. On the first day
of work after the deer-hunting trip, I noticed I had difficulty hearing
people on the phone. A trip to the doctor ended in a noise-damage
diagnosis. I was given vitamins and told that some of my hearing might
come back over time. Well, it didn�t, and my work in a noisy
environment, combined with hunting and other activities without hearing
protection, led to more hearing loss.
What�s
Your View?
Obviously, there are at least two
sides to every issue. Do you have a different view? This column is
meant to provoke thought, so keep sending comments. Each one is read
with the utmost interest. Send e-mail to: [email protected],
or send written responses to the editor. Mail will be
forwarded to the author.
People, especially family members, aren�t very
sympathetic to folks with hearing loss. Conversations are laced with words
like: �Can�t you hear? How many times do I have to repeat myself?�
�Turn the TV down,� �You�re not listening to me,� �You only
hear what you want to hear,� and the list goes on. My wife just tried to
ask me a question from the bottom of the steps. You can now add the words
�hear me?� to the list (her finishing comment after she repeated her
question). Talking to hearing-impaired individuals from a distance
doesn�t work. The more directly you speak to them, the better the chance
you will be understood.
Hearing Aids
Hearing loss affects other people far more than a
similar vision problem. For example, if someone has a vision problem, the
TV can�t be adjusted to compensate: The person must wear glasses. A
person with a hearing problem can turn up the TV volume. That solves the
problem for the person who has difficulty hearing, but is very annoying to
others who are also trying to watch the program. Fuzzy hearing gets in the
way of communications far more than fuzzy eyesight. One solution is to get
a hearing aid or hearing aids. At the age of 55 I finally purchased my
hearing aids, which have become both a solution and a problem.
Hearing aids give the handicapped their own
individual volume control, which seems like a solution to the problem. But
hearing aids increase the volume of all noise, and don�t discriminate
like the real ear. I�ve watched the commercials tell how good the newer
aids are at eliminating background noise. That may be true, but they are
just not connected to the brain like your real hearing. Read the small
print to get the real story. Glasses are viewed as fashionable. Hearing
aids are viewed as a sign of old age. There is nothing fashionable about
them. They can also be a pain to wear. When I first got my hearing aids,
the salesman told me that I�d hear things I hadn�t heard for a long
time. He was correct � I did hear the birds singing; but I also heard
how loud I sound going to the bathroom. I now make sure the door is always
fully closed.
Most people with hearing loss hear most of what is
said. They may just miss a few sounds, causing the sentence to be
incorrectly interpreted. An example: Someone may respond to a question
with the words �that�s best.� I might hear �that�s west,�
which causes a slow response while my brain tries to make sense of the
words; or, I may ask for the statement to be repeated by saying
�what?�
Get Help
Over the years, I�ve tried to be very up-front
about my hearing loss. I�ve asked my students to raise their hands so I
can walk toward them when they are speaking. Also, female students were
particularly difficult to hear, since they usually talked more softly and
in a higher pitch. Most hearing losses are caused by inability to hear
higher sound frequencies. If you know someone who has difficulty hearing,
encourage them to get proper help and a hearing aid. The next best thing
you can do is to remember that the person has a hearing problem, and
adjust your method of communication to create the best possible
environment for this person to hear and understand your words.
As the old saying goes, �An ounce of prevention is
worth a pound of cure.� Make sure your children get regular hearing
check-ups and wear ear protection around noise or when swimming. Their
school performance can be affected by a hearing loss, which could go
undetected for years. Rely on common sense, not future technology.
Whats
Your View?
Obviously, there are
at least two sides to every issue. Do you have a different view? This column is meant to
provoke thought, so keep sending comments. Each one is read with the utmost interest. Send
e-mail to: [email protected], or send written
responses to the editor. Mail will be forwarded to the author.
Teacher
Honor Roll
In our January issue we asked our readers to
nominate their best teachers for our teacher honor roll, and the
mail came pouring in! We will publish a few each month until we
have acknowledged all of our fine educators.
Nominator: Thomas T. Earles
Teacher�s Name: Mr.
Lawrence G. Wilson School System:George
Washington High School � Danville, VA
Primary Subject: Math - Geometry
Mr. Wilson changed me from a student who dreaded math
to one who loved math.
Nominator: K. Gregory Dixon
Teacher�s Name: Wandalyn
Boley School System: Prince William County � Stonewall
Jackson
Primary Subject: Music � Choir
A dedicated teacher who cares, she encourages you to
do your best!
Nominator: Nancy House
Teacher�s Name: David
Hardy School System: Prince William County
Schools, Brentsville District High School
Primary Subject: Drafting
He was a perfectionist, highly knowledgeable,
creative, and caring.