Vulgarity
The use of vulgar language has become, it seems, an
almost natural and accepted part of conversation. Four-letter words creep
into many day-to-day discussions. Even high government officials seem
perfectly comfortable using these words at various times.
As a society, we should examine what has changed in
our culture that now seems to allow the use of words that once offended
the most hardened individuals. Jack Paar, the memorable host of The
Tonight Show in the late 1950s, walked off the stage because NBC censored
a joke about a water closet, a British euphemism for a toilet. Boy, have
times changed. Sesame Street would use jokes of that nature today.
Television, movies and most books contain significant
use of vulgar words. Omitting these expressions from the official
Webster�s dictionary doesn�t deter their use. Society has its own
dictionary of everyday conversation and it contains a lot of offensive
expressions. The continued use of vulgarity in the media adds a dimension
of acceptability. Count the number of vulgar words in the next movie you
see; then explain how you�re going to tell your kids not to use these
words.
I�ve watched some famous PGA golfers miss their
putts or hit bad shots, and the movement of their lips tells me they know
that famous four-letter word. The sound might be turned off, but we all
know what was said. Watch the sidelines of any football game and read the
lips of the great coaches after a bad play. I guess the words used are
part of the character-building process of athletics. When I turned on this
computer, my Internet provider was highlighting a story about a University
of Pittsburgh player who had just used an expletive in the after-game
interview. He apologized for its use and so did the station. Hard to
criticize the kid for using the language just because the microphone was
on, and not criticize the coaches who are freely using the same words
after every bad play or call. NASCAR racing is trying to maintain its
clean image by fining drivers who have used vulgar language in after-race
interviews, but we all know it�s just as much a part of racing as
changing tires.
An article in Florida�s St. Petersburg Times sports
section told of a golfer from a local high school who was disqualified for
using improper language during the regional golf tournament. His score was
replaced by another golfer�s score, which made his team ineligible for
the state finals. Ironically, the offending golfer gets to continue as an
individual to the state finals. I�m a former high school coach of
several sports, including golf, and must admit to using improper words
from time to time. I find in certain environments, it seems so easy for
these four-letter words to creep into the conversation. I guess no one is
offended so they go unnoticed. My control mechanism is my wife, who
frequently reminds me of my language usage as well as other weaknesses
like my driving skills. Maybe that�s what we all need � a little more
awareness of what we are saying, and to be reminded it offends many
people.
I like to tell the story of a teacher who walks into
the room and finds that someone has written an expletive �****� on the
board. The teacher asks, �Who wrote that on the blackboard?� No one
answers. She asks a second time without a response. She then tells the
children to put their heads down on the desk while hiding their faces in
their hands and announces that the person who wrote the word should go to
the board and erase it. The students follow her request and within a short
time the sound of little feet can be heard going to the blackboard and
returning to a desk. The teacher now instructs the students to view the
blackboard expecting to find a clean slate. To her surprise is written,
expletive �****,� expletive �****,� �the phantom strikes
again.� Erasing the use of vulgar language from the mind is not going to
be an easy task, but that doesn�t mean we shouldn�t try.
Vocabulary
Every vulgar word has an acceptable word to explain
the same thought or action. In most cases the writer or speaker has the
choice of using several words in delivering a message. Vocabulary is often
a function of style. The greater the vocabulary, the more versatility the
writer/speaker has to explain thoughts. On the table next to me is this
(big, large, monstrous, heavy, unabridged) dictionary. Selecting the
proper adjective to describe the dictionary is determined by the audience
and the writer. I know there are certain rules to follow, but if everyone
followed the rules, reading and writing would be boring. Some variety is
good. It also gives me an excuse for any mistakes I make in these
articles. One rule I do follow is to not use too many of the words found
on the SAT examination. The only time most people hear the majority of
those words is during the exam. Educators spend a lot of time teaching
words we never use and I want to know... why? Why are we wasting our time
or why aren�t students using these words?
I just went to the Internet Web site
www.freevocabulary.com to find a list of study words that might appear on
a standardized test. Five-thousand words are listed for my review. I must
admit there were many I did not know. One of the words listed was
gynecocracy. The definition given is �female supremacy.� A much
simpler word for female supremacy is wife. (Don�t write me � it�s
only a weak attempt at male supremacy.) The site also states, �Fair or
not, people judge you and your ideas by the words you use.� Will using
more of those big words make my readers think I�m more erudite?
A secondary consideration is that using too many big
words from the list might cause you to quit reading this column. I would
then have to abnegate my writer�s pen. An expanded vocabulary is a
worthy goal, but we must always consider the law of diminishing returns. I
had a social studies teacher in the 8th grade by the name of Jules Bia. He
made an attempt to use every word in his expanded vocabulary. I don�t
remember much about the subject matter of that history class, but he
impressed me enough to remember his name more than 50 years later.
Scoring in life is like scoring in baseball: you get
the same reward for hitting the ball one foot over the fence as you do for
hitting it over the outfield bleachers. The greater distance adds more to
the personal satisfaction of the player and fans. Removing vulgarity and
replacing it with an expanded vocabulary will give us more satisfaction,
even if it isn�t required for a higher score.
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