When the End Comes
by Dr. John E.
Bonfadini, Ed.D., Professor Emeritus, George Mason University
John Bonfadini
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Some Final Food for Thought
In early November I was steelhead fishing in Northern
Pennsylvania. I�d had a good morning fishing and decided to try a spot
further upstream.
It had begun to rain, and the creek was becoming muddy as
the water rose. A local landowner had given me permission to fish a few deep
holes on his property. I was anxious to get a few casts in before the water
got too swift and I had to quit fishing. I headed for a spot just below a
train trestle.
I made a few casts from just off the bank, then took a
couple of steps further into the water. The next thing I knew I was in over
my head wearing waders, boots and all kinds of gear, a situation all
fisherman fear. I popped to the surface and could just see the top of the
water through my foggy glasses. I was somewhat disoriented. I remember
wondering if this was how my life was going to end. Other thoughts also
flashed though my mind before natural survival instincts kicked in and I
began taking breast strokes to get back to the underwater ledge. After
several strokes I felt the ledge with my leg and managed to climb back into
shallow water.
There was no one else on the stream. I was alone except
for the Good Lord, who I believe had something to do with my getting an
opportunity to enjoy my family for a while longer. We never know when the
end is going to come. The Bible includes several passages about the need to
be prepared. I had also been worried about my increasing PSA reading, a
possible indication that my prostate cancer had returned. Standing all wet
in the water I just thought that God had given me this extended opportunity
and my reading would be lower at the next test. I�m glad to report my PSA
reading had decreased, for which I am extremely grateful.
This long introduction about the end of life is to get me
to the topic of this article. It will be my last. The magazine will no
longer publish Food for Thought on a regular basis. It�s been a great
17-year ride. I�ve worked with the Virginia, Maryland & Delaware Association
of Electric Cooperatives (publisher of Cooperative Living) in various
capacities for almost four decades. As a board member and contributing
writer, improving the magazine�s scope and readership has always been a
priority. Some readers will say that my no longer being a writer will be an
improvement.
When you place your thoughts on paper for public
consumption and response, you expect to hear different points of view. The
magazine readers have been great. Some have praised me, others have spanked
me. Your comments were always welcomed. The editor suggested I reminisce
about the past 17 years, but I think the future is far more important. So
I�m closing with some thoughts about article topics I had planned to discuss
in future magazines.
Health Care: As a society we somehow need to unify in
developing a program that secures the best health-care access to all
citizens. The value of human life is diminished when health issues are not
addressed.
Education: We are beginning to see our universities become
under-funded. There is a lot of political talk about the value of education
but little real change in financial backing. The role of education will
always have some controversy, but a democratic society becomes nonexistent
without a strong educational system for all citizens.
Technology: It seems like just yesterday when we were the
only family on the block to have a television. We had a TV before we had a
telephone. I�d wait in line at the public phone to call my girlfriend. All
the guys wanted to talk with the ladies. We would dial their number, hang up
and they would call the booth back. We didn�t have the money to make a call.
I just made a call on my iPhone 4S, which has become an appendage to my
body. I actually ask it questions and it gives me answers. My granddaughter
wanted to know where Timbuktu was, so I just asked my phone. It gave me more
information than I could find in most libraries. The increased use of
technology to solve problems in the future will create many political,
social, and moral dilemmas. When I look back at the past 50 years I can only
imagine what the next 50 will hold for my grandkids.
Economy: Money is always the number-one issue. It
shouldn�t be but that�s what drives life in today�s world. We all expect
more for our kids than we had. Not sure this is a good philosophy. Many of
us probably already have too much. I believe this generation has lived in
the best of times. Will it continue into the future? I�d like to think so,
but I�m not sure. Some of our natural resources are finite. Will we discover
and learn to safely use other fuels to run our economic engine? I have faith
in our country�s basic goals, although the political process sometimes
causes a high level of anxiety.
Politics: Whenever I wrote on this subject I got very
strong opinions from many readers. Politics has become like a football game.
Many have a team association but many don�t know why they chose that team.
Society would be better off if we chose to love the game rather than a
specific team. Loving the game is synonymous with loving the country more
than any one political viewpoint. It would lead to more compromises and less
arguments. Yes, we have the best system, but that doesn�t mean it can�t be
improved.
Family Life: How our changing family life fits into our
society is a major future challenge. I consider religion a part of the
family structure. Contemporary family structure is being torn apart. Will it
survive in the world to come? Cooperative Living is a magazine whose goal is
to highlight electric cooperatives and the communities they serve. I�m sure
there will be plenty of articles published on this topic.
Well, you can see I still have plenty of thoughts running
through my mind. I consider it a blessing I still care about participating
in the debate about the virtues of life. You have been a great partner in
the past debates and I will continue to seek your thoughts through other
means and contacts. Again, with tears in my eyes I say thank you to the
readers and those associated with Cooperative Living for a great ride. God
Bless.